When your boyfriend is a jerk there isn’t much you can do except leave and make yourself feel better. There’s a saying that goes, you should say sorry because you cherish the relationship more than your ego, or at least something like that. What blasphemy. Some things I will not let go just because it’s a matter of principles.
So, today I spent some time arguing with my boyfriend. I don’t mean to use my blog as a means of release, but I just can’t hold in my anger and frustration.
Are there any others out there who is dating or has dated a European and find it difficult to resolve conflict? Why is it that they always have to win even when they’re wrong? Are Asians more needy and expect too much? I ask myself these questions (and many more) in hopes of figuring out the causes and solutions to my problems.
A healthy relationship should and does involve disagreement, but this just doesn’t seem normal. Is asking for respect too much? Since when was it ok to piss off your girlfriend because you were insensitive then run off out and get shitfaced with buddies and sleazy chicks ok?
Sorry to rant, but I’m just majorly disappointed, annoyed, and truthfully, hurt. For any men reading this, don’t you even dare ask if it’s that time of month.